A few nights ago, I had a wonderful conversation with a friend of mine. Definitely we talked about everything from career down to the least which is boys.
But then, a part of the conversation caught my full attention I felt I should share with my readers which was about we women, our dressing, and looks.
So, here we go!
Most times, she(my friend) leaves the house and she sees the dressing of some ladies out there yet we ladies complain about not being able to achieve proper BabyGirl status ok maybe I didn’t write that well yeah! We don’t get addressed the way we want people to address us.
Her point- We want to be seen at a certain level yet we look like 3 levels lower than our present status. An attempt should be made by every lady to dress, smell and look nice. she continues by saying even if you’re not a fan of makeup, you should at least take care of your hair and apply even if it’s white powder and lipgloss not walking about with your face shining like 10packs of Vaseline was poured on it🚶🏽♀️.
I added some girls start dressing up when they meet THAT GUY. Furthermore she says ” we look good to feel good not for men to validate that we look good”.
Knowing all this, people will address you better and with respect ,She’s an avid believer of “dress how you want to be addressed”.
ok! I’m running too fast, This was what led to the discussion above
I was gisting her about a situation that occured like two weeks ago and I was in the middle of it.
I was caught up in the middle of a situation when a friend of mine dressed like she struggled with her ancestors before coming to meet some friends and I. As the one who says things as it is, they were expecting me to talk, I was speechless!.So, this person is close to me and no matter how I sugarcoat my words, she will always read meaning into it . So you see!
I just took her inside and politely asked her to change, my madam took offence… I just laughed and said to her “when you’re ready to look like human being, then you can come out then we move”
Hanty came out and said she’s no longer going anywhere!
Me! I kuku left her and moved! You cannot look like SCREP and follow me SIMPLE!
have you ever been in a situation like this?
How did you handle it?
What are your thoughts on what my friend said?
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